I’m a Transformative Mentor and certified Purpose Guide, a mother, a poet, and artist. I offer wisdom and guidance to women as they navigate the soulful side of menopause and elderhood. I’m a midwife for your midlife rebirth.
10 years ago I began the journey I call the Midlife Rebirth. It was a profound transformation, helping me recover lost parts of myself: my intuition, creativity, power, and purpose.
Once I reached the end of my journey, I found an unexpected clarity. Having already spent 30+ years holding sacred space for women to rediscover their own innate wholeness, I knew I needed to offer my wisdom to a new generation of women.
The Midlife Rebirth is an antidote to the suppression of voice that so many women feel once they begin menopause. This stage in life was once a moment for celebration. A marker for the initiation of a new elder. A valued, empowered contributor to her community. The Earth is in a time of global crisis and we need Her voice again. The Midlife Rebirth aims to give that validation and empowerment to a new generation of wise, wild, whole women.
Menopause, by its nature, is a cellular change in a woman's body. But it’s so much more than this. It’s a transformation of a woman's soul. Through my practice, the Midlife Rebirth, I offer guidance through this transition of soul, an opportunity for rebirth.
During your Midlife Rebirth we will use myth, nature, and art to uncover your unique purpose. Then, by pairing your purpose discovery with the psychology, biology, and spirituality of menopause and elderhood, I will guide you to find a more wise, wild and whole way of being.
Each woman’s journey is unique. Her journey begins and ends in her own time based on her strengths, needs, and her life story. To address this, I offer a variety of ways to guide you on your Midlife Rebirth.
Transformative Mentoring
I offer one-to-one bespoke mentoring sessions for women travelling the midlife journey, seeking wisdom, purpose, and wholeness.
Birthing Wisdom
An 8-week online soul-initiation journey for menopausal women who are wanting to be part of a community as they transition into wisdomhood. Birthing Wisdom includes group sessions and private sessions with me.
Retreats
For women looking for a shorter intensive, I run creative retreats on the Isle of Iona, Scotland.
The spiral, an ancient symbol for regeneration, is the map I use for the Midlife Rebirth. Its circular movement invites you inward to the centre of Self to find your heart-based wisdom and purpose. The outward movement invites you to integrate your new found wisdom and purpose into your life. At each curve of the spiral, I ask a new question to invite you to travel deeper into your rebirth.
1. WAKING UP: Did your soul-waters break?
2. SETTING OFF: What will you carry with you?
3. INTO THE CENTRE: What will you let go?
4. AT THE THRESHOLD: What is your deepest longing?
5. THE CENTRE: What does your truest Self whisper?
6. THE RETURN: How will you integrate your wisdom?
7. STORY FEAST: Your unique myth.
8. WELCOME HOME: The Ceremony of Wholeness.
"My experience with Nicki was life changing. She helped me unlock aspects of myself that were hidden. The most transformative moment was when she helped me find my mythopoetic name: River Priestess of the Temple of Ordinary Moments. Working with her is like poetry incarnate."
Kamie, USA
"I loved being in the space of Nicki. Our time together was sacred and blessed. There was a dreamy quality to it. She created the space to explore what felt like ancient forgotten parts of myself. Nicki is expansive and vast, honourable and generous, and a perfect guide."
Kristin, USA
"Nicki is deeply insightful and skilled at listening and helping me weave together the threads of my life. She asks deep questions in a gentle, supportive way. I appreciated the way she honoured my menopausal transition as being part of my soul’s journey."
Paula, Scotland
"During our work together, Nicki shared her enthusiasm and wisdom on the importance of listening to nature and honouring the simplicity and silence within ourselves. It was infectious and transformative. Her vast knowledge of archetypal wisdom and the mythologies we carry helped her identify my strengths and encouraged me to follow my intuition. This gave me the confidence to trust myself and connect more fully with the world around me. I now feel much better equipped to navigate the journey of my life."
Priya, Scotland
If you’re inspired to reframe your menopausal journey as a rebirth, and you’re curious about the ways your soul is asking you to show up as a wise, wild, and whole woman, I invite you to read more about my courses, Birthing Wisdom and Transformative Mentoring. You can also sign up to my newsletter and read my Substack.
I guide women navigating the soulfulness of menopause to reveal their heart-based wisdom, gifts, and purpose for a regenerative world full of compassion and meaning.
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